Is it fair i'm charged with assault?
I was in a fight in a parking lot after some kid pulled in and tapped my car Accidentaly. No damage was done but he was on his phone. I got out very angry and he got out saying sorry sir, I said I'll put his phone up his a$$ and he just said ok, I said I'll knock him out and he said "ull knock me out?", I said you don't know who you are messing with, he said "well i'm pretty tough too", I swung at him and hit his eye, he then hit me and we went at it, i'm a former spec ops in military, also I weighed more and was about an inch taller at 6'2, he started choking me and I smashed his head into his car. A 5'10 slim grey haired italian american in his early 60s(report says he was born in March 1951) pulled me off telling me to stop hitting the kid and had help when two other men and a girl ran over, the wop had a baseball bat in his Honda that he brought out, he kept saying "your a bully! Get away from him now! I will do what I need to protect him", found out he was a retired nurse( and was assisting the kid until cops and emt arrived. He was Dutch descent aged 26(born 1989), looked younger, had a very pretty face, he looked like a movie star with chiseled model face structure ice blue eyes brown hair, not no more Tho). I found out he has a disability Asperger's which affects cordination and common sense. I'm now being charged under a law in NY state for attacking someone with a disability. I got in his face and he got in mine. He looked like he was gonna cry.
Added (1). The judge is going extra hard on me and treating me like trailer white trash. My Fam is very american(been here since pilgrims, grew up in west virginia and Ohio). I was defending me, my car. How dare pretty skinny boy drive on a phone? I was justified he said he was tough so I wanted to see.
Added (2). Also his girlfriend is sexy she came into court and basically called me mentally unstable. Pretty sure that's her boyfriend not me
It sounds like you started the whole thing to be honest.
Based on what you say, you were mad about a minor fender bender and decided to teach the kid a lesson and hit him first. You swung on him purely because you were outraged at his lack of diligence and humility, not because he was any threat to you. You're the bigger guy and your training leads you to believe you could dominate the situation.
I get where you're coming from in this, the guy was a distracted driver and no one likes to get the car bumped.
But we're not supposed to teach punk kids a lesson with our fists, we're supposed to let the system handle it. We go to fists when we're actually needing to defend ourselves and that's it.
I feel bad for you because it must have been absolutely revolting being called a bully and so on, rapidly worsening an already bad day, and then you got arrested and charged on top of it.
But I don't see that you had legal justification to whale on the pretty boy.
I think you're going to have to admit it all and then explain that you realize that you were arrogant and antisocial in wanting to mete out punishment for disrespect, essentially. That might get you off.
I'm sure my opinion is not welcomed, but honestly you really shouldn't of threatened him at all. He said sorry, and it was an accident. Like you said, no damage was done, none of the threats were necessary.
I wonder if your story is indeed real… I find strange how you know the year of birth of some of the people involved in this conflict… You even know about the nationality of their grandparents.
Why did you act so violent? I mean, yes, he made a mistake, he shouldn't be talking while driving… And because of being on the phone while driving he would have gotten in trouble with the police… Not to mention that his insurance company would have been responsible for the damages to your car.So i don't understand why you reacted in such way… I guess i feel identified with the victim because i also suffer of Asperger's… Which means i'm terrified about people… That's one of the reasons as to why i avoid driving as much as possible! I'm afraid of other drivers… I'm afraid when other drivers honk at me.
i'm not judging you… I understand that sometimes people do silly things when they are mad.
God bless you
You sound like a puzzy. I'm a usmc combat Vet of OIF OEF and my son is disabled. You aint tough nor dominating. You beat a skinny kid up. Come down to tx.
Act like white trash, you get treated like white trash, dear. Didn't mommy ever teach you that?
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