Transmission problems, 01 Honda Accord 214,000 miles?

When I start my car and put it into drive my car jerk once or twice then I drive and it doesn't shift right sometimes it gets stuck in a gear and I have to come to an almost complete stop and start going again for it to go into the right gear, the engine will rev up but the car won't move any faster. Could it just be a busted solenoid or could my whole transmission be going out? How can I tell the difference?

You got the worst generation of Honda ever. They got a bunch of bad transmissions that fail regularly.

It has over 200K miles on it. That year Accord had an extended warranty to 60,000 miles on the transmission because they had bad torque converters. I know, I had one and got a free tranny.

This is my suggestion. DO NOT take it to a place like AAMCO. They are a transmission store, and have a huge markup on parts. Find an automatic transmission shop that is ATRA certified.
http://www.atra.com/shopfinder