Where is the starting relay on a 2008 honda civic located?

The car won't start or make any sounds from the engine compartment not even a click. The light come on and everything else works. I had the starter and battery checked out and are fine. The battery connections are clean and free of corrosion.About two weeks ago this same thing happened to the car so I left it alone for a few days till I had time to look at it. But once I got time I just put the key in to see what it would do and it just started. I'm suspecting the starting relay but I can't find it to check it.

Under the hood in the fuse box. It should be labled