Who is the victim, the children or the methadone addict mother?

My sister is 36 years old and is a methadone addict and she has 2 kids. Her daughter is 10 and her son is 7. She makes them ride with her to the methadone clinic at 5-530am. Sometimes the kids come to school hungry and when I pick them up sometimes they snack on a lot of food. I wish I could get custody of them but I'm 21 and in college for a marketing degree. The mom rarely has food in the house, she hits her kids, she smokes a pack a day, and sometimes falls asleep while driving. She caused a wreck at 35 mph with her daughter inside and the little girl had to go to hospital and she had major bruises from the curtain airbag. The mom fell asleep, ran a stop sign, and a 2 door honda struck them. The other driver had a neck brace in the ambulance. The mom had to pay a massive fine. Why does the mom think she is a victim?

The mom is a victim of her own poor choices. Once she is done victimizing others I have empathy for her if there's any left over. The problem in these situations is she thinks she is a victim of anything and everything but she is not to blame.

If your story were at al true, this person would already be under investigation by CPS. The hospital staff are required BY LAW to report any and all child abuse incidents, including accidents where the parent is under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol. Any child who is in such an accident as you describe would certainly NOT be sent home with her parent. This person would not be thinking she's a victim at all because she'd be in jail and or stuck in a forced recovery in patient program. She would be seriously regretting her action or at the very least aware her children might not ever be returned to her. You should check your story out before posting, otherwise, you end up looking like just another story telling troll.