Bluetooth hft on honda civic type s 57 plate

Bought a type s 57 plate yesterday and it has bluetooth. I've tried reading all manuals etc and its asking me to press the 'pair device/bluetooth' button on the steering wheel, but my civic doesn't have any bluetooth/pair device buttons on the steering wheel. I've tried to press the actual bluetooth (located on the beam connecting the windscreen to the drivers side window) and searching for devices on my phone but nothing happens… Help please!

Are you CERTAIN that your car's radio HAS Bluetooth? Sometimes, that was only included in the extra cost optional units, and the standard radio didn't come with all the bells and whistles