Am I in trouble in life? Looking for something new?

40 years old male
- self employed $50 an hour salary
- never been married
- drives a honda
- do not own a house yet!
- my bank account only says $9000…

Added (1). Yes I have a hobby and I spend about $20,000 in a year for that hobby.

Added (2). yes, I rent a townhouse. It costs about $2500 a month and I live in the bay area. You know how expensive rent in this region.

$50 / hour and all you have in the bank is $9000? Yes you are in trouble.

You can't have lots of saving is you live a lifestyle that makes you spend cash

If you are unhappy with your life style, then change something about it, I like my life style, and I'm just simple and plain, but I'm happy with it, my husband, hates, where we live, the town that we're in, the people around us, and the town is growing and he hates the fact that there are so many people in it and also, he has terrible road rage! Needles to say, it does cause a conflict in our marriage, but after 24 years of marriage, if he decides that this is not for him, then fine, because I do not need all of the negativity that he brings home with him.

So it is up to you, if you want change to make your lifestyle better, then you have that power to do so.

Your rent and other expenses must be very high.

You are single because you are greedy and don't know how to manage your money.