I asked my mother to let my fiancé store his car in her garage because he has a valuable car and we live in a bad neighborhood

My fiancé also asked her fiancé separately. My Honda was already stolen last year out of our parking lot, and his car has parts worth over $15,000 in it. They both said no, and that they didn't have room. Cool, that's understandable, it's their garage.

BUT my brother is 19, lives at home with his dad (my mom and his dad are divorced) and makes more than both my fiancé AND my mother at his job. No responsibilities. My mother OFFERED the garage to him for his car for the winter (yes, my 19 year old brother can afford multiple vehicles), after telling my fiancé and I no. I'm pregnant with twins, I do not have a job (I was fired for being pregnant because I was a liability yes that is illegal no I can't prove that was the reason), and my fiancé has not been able to find a buyer for his car. She is aware of all of this, and claimed that she and her fiancé forgot that they said they had no room and they both claim they never said they didn't have enough room.

She refuses to admit that what she did was at least a little wrong. I understand it's her garage, she can do what she wants with it, but she completely ignored our please to let us keep the car there so we can afford our bills and food, and we asked months before she offered to my brother, meanwhile let my brother keep his car there while he just keeps collecting money that is all play money since he has no bills.

Am I crazy, or was that messed up of her?

People, he can't sell the car. It doesn't run and he's asked everyone in CT if they want to buy it. No one is going to buy a car they have to tow that barely even turns on. My financial problems are NOT a part of the question. I just gave background so you can know my situation. My question is IS IT NOT MESSED UP THAT SHE LIED AND SAID SHE HAD NO ROOM AND THEN OFFERED THE GARAGE TO MY BROTHER? That's all I want to know.

I know you are just looking for someone to agree with you, but Mom didn't do anything wrong. She doesn't evaluate you and your brother the same way you do. She doesn't see your brother as "rich" and you as the opposite. You are finding fault in your Mother for not offering you pity when in reality she is offering you respect for being independent.

Yes, I do agree with you, under the circumstances, and was kind of wishy washy with this.

Don't know the moving parts about this, but there's more to this, than you are actually stating here, and do think the pregnancy is contributing to your stress.

Is it possible to keep this with your dad or grandparent, and if not, you need to let the fiancé find ways to deal with this, since you would definitely need your relatives to help with the grand kids, choose your battles.

But I do understand what you are saying here, it works both ways and there seems to be some history here which divorces always does to the kids who do hurt.

Blessings to you, and have a safe pregnancy.

No matter what, children are always a blessing from God.

Its rude of your mom not to let you keep your car there but there's not much you can do about it if she won't let you, ask someone else if you can do that