I lied to my crush about my family?
I went on a my first date with this guy that I really like that I had been working with for a month. I know he really likes me, he's a really good, kind, and caring guy and he's asked me a few questions about things that I answered dishonestly. He comes from a very wealthy family and his dad is about to buy the Tesla. My family has been struggling financially because of my dad for as long as I can remember and he is making $9 and hour. My parents have one old 2002 car and we were talking about cars yesterday and he asked me what car my dad drives (which was kinda weird). He doesn't even have a car but I just said some kind of Honda. How do I fix this and how bad is this…
You know what I have noticed in life? People generally don't care about what car you have, how many rooms your house has, if you have a house and so on. My boyfriend is probably the coolest guy you'll ever meet. The first time I met his with a few friends he drove up in this Fiat Punto with the exhaust pipe hanging lose and dragging on the ground. But he had no shame about it, he was confident and he didn't care. I loved that about him. And no one was bothered.
It's the same thing when you were a little kid and the other kids teased you about something. If you cared and took offense they thought it was funny and continued. But if you didn't care then it was no fun.
Obviously you just need to tell him the truth before this gets too deep. There's no point going into the starting a relationship or dating someone based on lies. If he's really likes you, he won't care about your families financial background
Your screwed… Good luck with life you lying SOB
If he really likes you it won't be an issue for him. Don't concentrated on the financial issues of your family, tell him what a great family they are. You could be making this into a bigger issue than its meant to be.
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