Long story
My boyfriend of two years and I just had a baby in February and lived together since October 2016. In December he got my car impounded for getting a DUI. He said he would get it out but never did… It's gone and he hasn't even given me a dollar for it. It was a paid off working older Honda but it was in working condition.
I overhear him talking to his friend a few weeks ago about how he wanted to go to Vegas and have five or six naked hoes and how he wanted to party with them. Ok dude we're 33 years old.
I'm on disability and he was laid off around the same time. In March he got 1800 and gave me $380 for bills his portion of the bills is $800. He said he didn't get the money and that unemployment took the money because he was overpaid. That was a lie, I was mosey and checked his card for transactions of deposits and he got the money. I let it slide and didn't say anything. I figure he was trying to save but NOPE he lost it all at the casino and the rest on alcohol. Long story short he is still lying about the money and gave me $360 this month and just got paid again and went out partying with some 25 year old all night. Kind you he hasn't been going out to clubs and kick backs the past two months. Like am I overreacting? Should I dump him if so how I mean I don't want hi to know I checked his card and whatever. Oh ya I have 4 kids from a previous marriage and here's he is using me for a house and food and utilities.