Honda Vs Toyota ( which better today )?

Anyone know which is better now? I plan to buy new car when my old done payment, but undecide which one, currently i have toyota / honda together and both about a same quality and i see little diff from both

good on toyota >>

toyota start engine quicker than honda
( honda when old stater take longer start up engine )

toyota heat/air condition work longer than honda

good on honda >>

honda quite cylinder when new less noise than toyota
honda build strong shape inteior and exterior
honda save money on gas than toyota

Car shopping/ detail replacement questions?

So my car has to be replaced thanks to a warranty covered defect so I'm shopping around again. I really would like to have a more rugged vehicle like the Honda element or the Toyota FJ Cruiser are perfect. EXCEPT they get terrible gas mileage and the entertainment center is not up to par.

I really have 2 questions. 1) If I were to get one of those 2 cars, how much would it cost to put a newer entertainment consul in without being able to tell its aftermarket. 2) If I didn't get one of those does anyone now another rugged style car that s $16K or under, gets at least 35 MPG, remote start and heated seats?