When buying a car what matters to you?

Kinda weird my friend it matters these things

How it looks so

Daytime running LED
LED tail lights
If the interior feels "luxurious"
Sunroof
Good quality backup camera
Navigation
Rear heated seats
heated mirrors
welcome lights on side mirrors
folding mirrors
LED headlights.
Apple carplay
LED turn signal mirrors
auto high beams
auto windshield wipers
Brake hold
Honda sensing

How would my car do against these two other cars?

In the past I had two other cars one being a 98 Nissan Altima gxe auto and a 2006 Mazda 3 5 speed.

Currently I own a 2003 Honda Element awd 4 spd. Compared to these other two cars I had in the past how would my car perform against these two other cars? Like if I had one of these cars hit and run me and I have to chase them down, would my car be able to keep up with one of these cars or not? I'm asking bc my car is probably the most heaviest and non aerodynamic car off the two however it has more hp than either of them as well more torque. Could my car catch one of these cars? Which would be the most challenging and why for me to keep up with?

Is it rude of me to not accept my dads money to buy a car that I want?

I recently graduated Nursing school (he pushed me to be a Nurse). I feel like my whole life I have been told what to do by my parents. Never really had a say. I will be 22 this year and I recently graduated and got a full time position at my placement. I start February 1st.

My dad was so happy and proud of me and he said he wanted to reward me by putting a huge down payment on my car. He said "lets go to Honda and I will put $4000 down". He never asked me what car I wanted. Its only because he is paying for some of it he gets a say.

I don't want a Honda I want a Chevy. He got upset and he said that he won't put any money down if its a Chevy. But I never once asked him to put money down on my first car. I have enough money for finance it and I have good approve credit from the bank. I told him "That is fine but I don't need your money I can get it myself".

My whole life has been like this. He made me go to Nursing school because he will be paying for it (I had no money saved up my self because I was in high school).

Then last year I had plans of moving out and he never supported it and wanted me to live with them until I get married.

One day I think I might just move out and I won't tell anyone. Just move to a place and cut connections with everyone because I don't want to live in anyones shadow or know that the only reason why I have this is because of them etc. He even said he will put money down on a Condo for me in this area, but I wanted it in a different area.

Added (1). at the end of the day with the car he is buying something that he wants for me not what I want for myself…